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Friday, June 6, 2008
WE ARE ONE.

Falling in love is like a stone falling into a pool. At first, there is the splash of ecstasy; of water meeting stone; of softness meeting hardness; of two elements, fundamentally different, coming together and making one. This is the glorious passion of the first few meetings where you meet and become one.

Then the ripples start growing larger as you gently meet others in your circles. Your family and your close friends meet the other and you see your lover reflected in their eyes, and their worlds. Slowly you learn more, both about your lover and your friends and family as the ripples grow larger.

Then you become an acknowledged couple. The ripples have fused and you are recognized as being together in the larger circles. Still fundamentally different, one a hard stone, one yielding water, you become a third entity, together ready to rest together, always.

Finally, the ripples reach the end of the pond. The degree of depth changes and become shallower. You find those ripples further away from that initial passion, that beginning splash that combined you together. Either you both move together into a further dimension or become part of the main fabric of society, happy and co-joined, stone and water, or else, lose that essential connection to that first splash and divide once more into separate elements. Of course, even if you divide, you are changed. Even if one of you is still a stone, and one of you is still water, your essential matter has experienced that immutability of stone and the freedom of water. You move on to seek a different pool, another body of water, to make your own.


When I am with you, the stars are in their places; the planets align perfectly, and even the air smiles with pleasure and comfort. Being with you is like being in an old, comfortable, warm armchair that enfolds me. The love of music and words has bound us together. And the excitement, the passion - when I look into your eyes, I get the same fluster, the same rise of passion as I did when we first met.

My lover has a smile that goes straight to my hips and a laugh that shakes me at the knees. He has eyes which make my skin tingle, and lips which make my mind sing. When he touches me, all is right in the world, the planets are suddenly aligned...

Unlike other relationships, I am not half a person when I am away from him though. I am fully able to function, to go for hours without thinking of him, completely able to immerse myself into other things and yet...and yet...

When we are together, our two halves become whole.

Wholly complete apart and completely whole together.

Though missing you is a shattering thing, and when I feel like reaching out but grasping nothing, We are one.

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